| Location | Liverpool |
| Age | 1 month |
| Date of Birth | 8/2004 |
| Date of Death | 9/2004 |
| Visitors | 1,927 since 28/08/2006 |
| Creator |
Jolie Louise Buckley
August 30th 2004 - september 4th 2004
Only 5 days old
Only place ever visited was Liverpool womens hospital
Jolie Louise Buckley was born on monday the 30th august 2004, Jolie was 4 months premature and she
was a little fighter. Im Jolies Mummy and im going to explain it a little bit....when i was pregnant
i had a terrible time and i was in and out of hospital, i was heavily bleeding at 8weeks and the
doctors said i had to stay in over nite as i had had a miscarriage, the next morning i had an
internal scan and i found out i didnt have a miscarriage my baby was still there (we were over the
moon) after this i had a number of bleeds and to our relief on my 20 week scan our baby was fine but
my waters had gone (they thought this may have happened when they thought id had the miscarriage)
they then sent us home and said there was nothink thye could do and i was going to lose my baby, i
had to stay in hospital and basically i was waiting to lose my baby..i wasnt happy because i know
now that they could have done things for my pregnancy to carry on which they didnt mention like
inject water into the sac and things like that..they werent interested, i wish at the time i would
have known more..so i waited and worried for nearly 4weeks and i had steroids at 23weeks to
strengthen my babies lungs..Then at 7am on sunday 29th august i was getting contractions and i was
5cm dialated but i was bleeding so heavily.This wasnt good i was only 23weeks and 6days pregnant i
was ment to be 40weeks b4 it went this far it was horrible, such a nightmare i just didnt know what
to do, they were saying my baby had no chance of survival..To get to the point my baby was coming on
Monday morning, and then they checked me and said my baby had died and that i had to give birth to a
dead baby...that was it i felt dead there was no way i could do it i was numb and devastated...they
took me to theatre cos i just didnt do anythink.. the next thing i remember was i was getting woken
up, i was telling them to leave me alone and then they said you dont understand janet your baby is
alive..that was it i was wondering what was going on and why were they being sick and saying this to
me..then i was amazed i was taken in a wheelchair to see my gorgeous liitle girl, she was gorgeous,
so tiny she only weighed 1lb 8 and could fit into my hand, she was covered in wires and things but
alls that mattered to me was that she was here and she was alive and she was all mine..
Jolie was doing very good and she was a little fighter she had a page as a miracle baby in the
liverpool echo..
Jolie sadly started to leave us on the Saturday the 4th september, she fell asleep at 2pm and it was
the worst day of my life, it was so hard to stay in this world while my little girl wasnt here, why
did i have to bury my daughter she was only 5days old ... somehow im still here and i really dont
know how i did it, it hurts so much and it dosnt get easier it just gets u to the point were u have
to cope with it. I think about my little girl all the time and shes always going to be my little
girl, my first child. I have another gorgeous girl called alisha who was born february 15th 2006 and
she will be told when shes old enough about her big sister and how strong she was..I love you Jolie
xxxxx
so sorry for ur loss
ive just read about ur little girl and looked and the lovely photos of both ur little girl. my thoughts are with u, ur partner and ur second little girl jolie will live on in her all the things u didnt see jolie do u will see her little sister do, i cant imagine what it was like for u the whole pregnancy u seemed to get bad news then good news but the best news was that jolie was alive yes she nay have had loads of tubes and wires but she was a little fighter so u could see her breathing and feel her warmth but the fight was to hard but she just wanted to make sure she met her mummy and daddy first before she gave up her hard fight. jolies playing with the angels now free from pain and she will always be there with u in all u and her family do she will be there watching u all just hard that u can see her but dont worrie she can see u. my brother died at the age of 21 yrs and a week after burrieing him i had my first boy and he use to look around my living room and sit for ages just staring into a corner talking and laughing i use to like to think that he could see his uncle been stupid pulling faces and what have we that was a nice feeling as it made him feel close to us. any way my thoughts are with jolie her strong mummy and daddy and her little play mate/sister im thinking of u allxxxxxxxxxx sweeet dreams joliexxxxxxxxxx
play and enjoy yaself
I hope my little angel is playing in the lovely flowers in the gardens and enjoying yourself, i cant wait to see my precious angel again sum day, i hope all the family are looking after my little girl xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i will be there
Jolie on wednesday i will be sat beside u all day, i will bring u some flowers and a present off your little sister, i cant believe its your 2nd birthday xxxxx
rest
Rest for now baby and one day we will meet again and it will be the best day ever, there was so much we didnt get to do and we didnt get to hold you for long..until that day arrives u will always be in my heart xxxxx
a big hug
Im sending u the biggest hug ever but just a gentle one, i love u jolie, sweetdreams my special little girl xxxxx
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